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To let your marriage work well
Learn to DROP
Drop the negative people in your circle who affect your marriage, everyone including and family friends
Drop the feelingof guilt about your past. Don’t carry your past.
Drop your partner’s past mistakes.
Drop the false image you are carrying and caring about so much about self and one another.
Drop the feeling of being sorry for your choices
Drop saying yes all the time
Drop trying to please everyone minus oneself
Drop your limited beliefs
Drop worrying about your future
Drop the bad habits that curb your happiness of your family
Learn to let Go……Learn to overlook…………Learn to leave behind your past
Important things in Relationship
We can master relationship if we understand the simple fact that my partner is not difficult but is different. Cherish the difference.
Church view of Dignity in Marriage
Pastoral Constitution Gaudiumetspes. (1965)
one of the 16 documents composed at the Second Vatican Council, the Council fathers devote an entire section to marriage and the family: nos. 47-52, Speaks of dignity in marriage.
(48)The intimate partnership of married life and love has been established by the Creator and qualified by His laws, and is rooted in the conjugal covenant of irrevocable personal consent. Hence by that human act whereby spouses mutually bestow and accept each other, a relationship arises which by divine will and in the eyes of society too is a lasting one. For the good of the spouses and their off-springs as well as of society, the existence of the sacred bond no longer depends on human decisions alone. For, God Himself is the author of matrimony, endowed as it is with various benefits and purposes
(1) All of these have a very decisive bearing on the continuation of the human race, on the personal development and eternal destiny of the individual members of a family, and on the dignity, stability, peace and prosperity of the family itself and of human society as a whole. By their very nature, the institution of matrimony itself and conjugal love are ordained for the procreation and education of children, and find in them their ultimate crown. Thus a man and a woman, who by their compact of conjugal love “are no longer two, but one flesh” (Matt. 19:ff), render mutual help and service to each other through an intimate union of their persons and of their actions. Through this union they experience the meaning of their oneness and attain to it with growing perfection day by day. As a mutual gift of two persons, this intimate union and the good of the children impose total fidelity on the spouses and argue for an unbreakable oneness between them.
(2)Sealed by mutual faithfulness and hallowed above all by Christ’s sacrament, this love remains steadfastly true in body and in mind, in bright days or dark. It will never be profaned by adultery or divorce. Firmly established by the Lord, the unity of marriage will radiate from the equal personal dignity of wife and husband, a dignity acknowledged by mutual and total love. The constant fulfillment of the duties of this Christian vocation demands notable virtue. For this reason, strengthened by grace for holiness of life, the couple will painstakingly cultivate and pray for steadiness of love, large heartedness and the spirit of sacrifice
An elderly Chinese couple was asked by her granddaughter, on the 60th marriage anniversary, “Grandma tell me what is the secret of your successful marriage? Have you ever felt like breaking up with grandpa?” the old woman with a smile answered “I belong to the generation who used to mend the things that are torn, not discard.” How true is this analogy, if we know how to mend the brokenness of self and one another, there is no need to discard any relationship. Let us learn to mend! Not end!.